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Remember how I said things with James and I were fine? Yeah, today totally ruined that. As I working I was thinking maybe James and I will be fine for the rest of the summer, just a random fight here and there but nothing like last summer...WRONG. Last night we were texting while I was at work and we made plans to hang out today. So last night after he got out of the bar he came over to my house and slept over. This morning he said "call me when you get out" I told him that I would be out at four. So I call him and he's playing golf with his brothers. I understand that he wants to spend quality time with them but it really pissed me off that we had already made plans and he didn't even consider that he just went off and played golf with them. So then he says "yeah afterwards we're going back to my house to play poker and drink and you can come over if you want to" Oh thanks for the fucking invite James! HELLO you fucking douche bag, we had plans already!! Oh my god, I can not tell you how angry I was. I was shaking because I was so pissed off. Add that onto no sleep and 11 hours of work...I just blew up. Then he tried to tell me that "I've been in a bad mood all summer" I'm like well yeah when you do shit like this it isn't going to make me happy. This isn't the first time he's done this either. He did it a few weeks ago. I don't know what to do we didn't fight for like four days, now we're back to fighting....? :(
Current Mood:
angry pissed off
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On May 29th, 2006 02:28 am (UTC), jackieg87 commented:
James does the same shit to me with his cousins all the time and we always fight about it. And sometimes he understands that it upsets me and sometimes he doesn't. it's something about guys it's like they really don't intend to hurt your feelings yet at the same time they don't seem to understand that what they're doing is dumb and they're being assholes. Don't take it too hard. it does suck. just tell him HEY! THIS SUCKS and this is how it makes me feel you jerk! usually works...hope things get better for you
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On May 29th, 2006 06:30 pm (UTC), sweetheart829 replied:
Well I'm glad that my boyfriend isnt the only one doing it. I don't think they understand that its hurtful. I talked about it with him and we aren't fighting anymore. Thanks for the advice :-)
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